A special place

Have you ever stood somewhere and felt good? Have you looked around? Did everything about the room make you feel comfortable?

I would like to take this opportunity to share an experience with you. It has happened to me a few times, even hundreds of miles away from home, to think: "Wow, this place is great!" Or: "This is how a room should be!" And I would be inspired to create something similar one day.

 It happened to me in a restaurant. I had just arrived in Berlin with my husband (then fiancé) and we were looking for a place to warm up and have a bite to eat before we set off to explore the city. As soon as we walked in, no doubt helped by the polar-cold temperature change, I felt at ease.

Years have passed, but I still remember the effect that place had on me: wood, lots of plants, warm lights. Outside the large windows, under a grey sky at the end of December, the city seemed to be bursting with life. Inside, however, life was at a slower pace, it was an atmosphere in which you could take a break and disconnect from the hustle and bustle of the week. The dark ceiling accentuated the vines that separated the sections of the restaurant like curtains. Walls of wooden slats, just under a person's height (about 150 cm), created intimacy between the tables but did not block the view.

The furniture had essential lines, was comfortable and complemented with cushions in neutral tones. Whether it was seats, tables or walls, the wood of the furniture was all in the same shade. A very warm light, similar to that of the old light bulbs, was diffused by strings of light bulbs and large black chandeliers.

And trees. Inside the restaurant, there were giant vases containing trees.

Moodboard un posto speciale

Perhaps this description has the flavour of 'seen it all before', but let us not forget that every environment speaks differently to those who experience it. At that moment, it gave me total relaxation, the feeling that I was finally on a break and the chance to enjoy lunch in a peaceful place.

This is how much power the space we live in holds over us, and why it is so important to think about it intentionally.

Sometimes we may not notice it, but home is where we feel good.

Even if it is just for a few hours, even if we are far from our home of memories and roots. Just as we feel at home watching our favorite film for the thousandth time. Or when we read that great book again.

Try it yourself: what is the last place where you felt comfortable, welcome and serene? Create your own moodboard of a special place. Can you bring some of that magic into your everyday life?


PLAYLIST

A Rovolon, by Giorgio Gobbo, Nettare dell’Estate
Lonely Night In Georgia (ft.Vince Gill), by Johnnyswim, Georgica Pond

Long nights before Christmas

Q & A TOGETHER FRANCESCA - A_LOOK_TO_THE_ALPS

To mark the shortest days of the year, the holidays and the winter solstice, I interviewed Francesca, creator of the Instagram page @a_look_to_the_alps.

Her words are about ancient traditions that echo to this day and become our own. By capturing the wintry magic of this period through her images, Francesca leads us to the discover - or rediscover - a way of enjoying the festivities in contact with nature and ourselves.

How can we spend these days intentionally? What are our favorite traditions? What minimalist and slow decorations can we use in our home?

I will leave you with Francesca's words. She has also left us an old recipe to celebrate this season.

Q. What does this season mean to you?

A. Yuletide is a magical time for contemplation. It is the winter solstice, also known as Midwinter according to the Wheel of the Year. The longest night happens on or around 21 December when it lasts the longest. The Wiccan tradition celebrates the cycles of nature, including the birth of the young Sun God. In other Neopagan traditions, the Holly King is defeated by his lighter aspect, the Oak King.

Q. What are the traditions and decorations that symbolize the Winter Solstice?

A. Symbols such as candles, festivals, and evergreen decorations serve as reminders that light and life persist despite the harshness of winter. Bonfires were also a significant aspect of Winter Solstice and Christmas celebrations. Our ancestors believed that bonfires could ward off evil spirits at night. In other cultures, firelight was believed to help bring sunlight back into the sky. It is customary to clean the house and get rid of unwanted items during the Yule celebrations. This will help prepare for the new season by creating a space free of negative energies or memories accumulated over the year.

Foto by Francesca - @a_look_to_the_alps

Q. The tradition of 'getting rid of old things' reminds me of those who symbolically throw items out of the window on 31 December. This somewhat extreme gesture recalls the idea of making space for what will come with the New Year.  How do you celebrate this season?

A. The upcoming Winter Solstice is a perfect time to reflect on the past year and start thinking of what you want for the year ahead. Personally, I try to spend extra time with my loved ones and family. I also use this time to plan how to achieve my goals. Yule is a period of introspection for me, where I reflect and think about what I want the upcoming year to be like. There are several ways to celebrate this season in your home: It’s nearly impossible for me to describe all of them. However, it is important to note that many of our modern practices, often without much thought, have their roots in ancient solstice traditions: the Christmas tree, lights and gift-giving all have historical significance.

Foto by Francesca - @a_look_to_the_alps

Q. Do we unconsciously return to old traditions at Christmas? You previously mentioned seasonality. Do you decorate your living space? If yes, what kind of decorations make you feel at home?

A. For some years now, I have been using my Instagram page @a_look_to_the_alps to raise awareness for a more conscious, minimal, and slow Christmas. This is the time of the year when I feel most out of place. Unlike the other houses in my street, my house has no outside lights or garish decorations. Instead, I prefer to collect pine cones and dry branches from the forest to use as decorations, along with paper bag stars. I choose beeswax candles instead of electric lights. I simply say 'nothing' when asked what I want for a present. 'Weird' is the word my family uses the most. Living a minimalist lifestyle can be challenging due to societal expectations. I used to question my desire to live simpler when judged and criticized. Our culture has instilled in us a “fear of missing out”. This leads us to keep busy by constantly planning and filling our lives with unnecessary things. One of these things is impulse buying. Let's also talk about overspending on Christmas dinners and the 'gift rush'.

Q. Many people think back to their childhood at this time of year. What kind of memories does Christmas bring back to you?

A. I reflect on how my parents, like myself, were imperfect people. Despite their imperfections, they loved deeply. I also consider how our holidays, much like our lives, were simple and imperfect by social media standards, yet still beautiful.

Foto by Francesca - @a_look_to_the_alps

Q. During this time of year, it is common to feel overwhelmed with a long list of tasks and social events, not to mention the anticipation of the Christmas season which seems to start earlier every year. As we approach the end of the year, every step and stage is filled with hope and anticipation. How do you manage these emotions?

A. I wonder: as we approach the busy holiday season, how can we simplify our lives and make room for the joy of celebrating with loved ones?

Lights and parties can be helpful, but they can be ineffective if we use them as distractions. Let us not deceive ourselves that there is light when it is actually darkness. The Buddha teaches that suffering arises from craving what we want and avoiding what we dislike. Are we using bright lights to avoid the darkness?

Let us take a moment to appreciate the beauty of the night: the stars, the moon, and the wildlife such as deer, foxes, and owls. Like the bear and the groundhog, our bodies seek rest, while our souls enjoy the time of dreams in the darkness.

Foto by Francesca - @a_look_to_the_alps

Q. Would you like to share with us something typical of this period?

A. I leave you with the ancient recipe for Yule Wassail, with the hope that light will always shine both inside and out.

Q. What is the story behind this recipe? Is it also the origin of a modern Yuletide tradition?

A.  The term 'wassail' originally meant to greet someone. The concept of 'wassailing' dates back to pre-Christian fertility rites. During these ceremonies, villagers would walk through fields and orchards in the middle of winter, singing and shouting to drive away spirits that might inhibit the growth of future crops. They would also pour wine and cider on the ground to promote earth fertility.

Over time, the concept of wassailing evolved into carol singing, which became popular during the Victorian era and is still practiced today in many nations. If you believe your family or friends would enjoy starting a new musical tradition, why not gather them together to go wassailing for Yule?

Foto by Francesca - @a_look_to_the_alps

Francesca told us about 'wassailing', an old tradition. But even in our modern times, at Christmas time, a group of people may have walked down your street singing carols. I don't know how many towns still do it, but where I grew up it was called "Chiarastella" (literally "bright star"). The nostalgia, that is often present around Christmas, brought back many childhood memories. Among them were the wonderful evenings spent singing from house to house. The tradition of singing together, involving whole streets and villages, has always warmed my heart, regardless of the type of song and the ancient ritual that gave birth to it. It is a time of belonging, of sharing, and in the eyes of 'me' as a child, a time when quarrels and problems fall silent. On the contrary, the houses often opened up to the group of cold people, they improvised snacks or dinners, went to the cellar for wine, salami and bread. It was a celebration.

This year I wish you that kind of celebration, where time, songs and good food are shared. Where we see everything with a little extra magic, like when we were children and walked at a slow pace to fully savor the beauty of this season.

Happy Solstice and Merry Christmas.

You can find @a_look_to_the_alps e @leafandtimber on Instagram!

How does the space we live in affect us?

Maybe someone could tell me that we are the ones who characterize a place. We convey our personality to it as we live it: whether at home, or where we work, or the place where we stay for a short or long time.

In my opinion, it doesn't take much to start this process of mutual adaptation.

Most people have more or less figured out what the average hospital bed looks like. In short: neon lights, colors ranging from white to shades of blue/green, sometimes a religious symbol, sometimes a TV. And yet beds are at most uncomfortable with rough cotton linen, lockers, bedside tables, tables, chairs marked by wear and tear.

The whole thing is very aseptic and standard, occupied in rotation by different people who both leave and don’t leave any trace.

As soon as you enter you feel lost, partly because of the context that brings you there, partly because you are in an environment that feels very distant from you. Almost automatically you try to personalize it. A book, some magazines, a notepad, a bag of snacks, soft towels from home - the list is not very long actually.

HUMANISIGN A FOREIGN PLACE

You don't bring many things to the hospital. But they are there, put on display defiantly, so that they soften the unfamiliar surroundings, so that you feel embraced by the objects that remind you of your daily life.

The only thing I liked about that room was the window.

Except for the battered shutter - which I never closed to avoid it cutting off my view outside - I had been very lucky. The city stretched out before my eyes: the cathedral, the historic villas and the center on the right. On the left were apartment blocks and houses, old and new office buildings. Everything was brightened by the warm and changing light of day, and at night it was dotted with street lamps and car lights. Small and large gardens grew greener as spring approached, trees swayed, clouds and far to the north the line of mountains.

I think part of the healing was due to the fact that as I looked out of that window I felt like I was breathing again.

Golden hour

I hadn't brought the window from home but it made me feel at home.

The thought that popped into my head gives the title to this post. The space we live in affects us and it is mutual: we personalize the place we are in as soon as we set foot in it. Maybe we do it to feel comfortable, to feel in an atmosphere that reflects and motivates us. We do it unconsciously or consciously: the result of what we create influences our mood and the way we connect with others.

DETAILS AND IDENTITY

How many of us, for example, rediscovered the place in which we lived when we were confined there for three months in spring 2020? And how many decided to modify or change it after that spring?

To me, a hospital room is one of the icons of that spring and of how little control we have over external events.

We can work through the “little” things. 

Come sul contesto in cui viviamo, sul cercare di sentirci a nostro agio ovunque siamo. 

Like about the situation we live in, trying to feel at ease wherever we are. I'm thinking of pediatric wards, which often are as colorful and joyful as possible, compatible with the norms and practical needs of healthcare facilities.

Even adults deserve the chance to stay in places that are worthy of the human being.

I refer to the average hospital whose features we listed earlier. It would be nice to be able to soften those places and turn them into familiar ones in the future.

There's a reason why certain colour and stylistic choices have been made, but it's the little things that make the difference. The type of light, the materials used, the possibility of having plants or flowers or books available. And also simple systems for contacting those outside, accessible even to guests who are not familiar with the latest technology, some comfortable seating, snacks or drinks in the patients' room. Then a radio, natural light filtering through clean glass, a table lamp for the evening, dividers between beds in case of multiple rooms or other needs.

For sure, we do not want to stay in hospital any longer than necessary and it is also sure that in a comfortable environment we feel better and we don't lose our identity as a person.

Each of these little things just mentioned is a sign that we haven't been forgotten. The room in which we come in afraid can have the power to welcome, protect and strengthen. Patient A shouldn't feel as just as bed X in room Y any longer.

It's the 'little' things that make us human. 

That's what design for me is about: creating compatible solutions in challenging cases to improve people's experience in the place they live in.

Make a list of little things that bring you joy and make you feel at home, and share it by tagging Leaf&Timber on Instagram! Let's give voice to the details!

Playlist

Come As You Are”, Nirvana

Arsène”, Mathieu Lamboley, music from “Lupin” the Netflix Original Serie

“I’m Vengeance”, Brian Delgado, Epic Music World